7 Tips to Help You Write When You Don’t Feel Like It-Colleen M. Story


Colleen M. Story writes imaginative fiction and is also a freelance writer, instructor, and motivational speaker specializing in creativity, productivity, and personal wellness. Her latest novel, Loreena’s Gift, was released with Dzanc Books April 12, 2016. Her fantasy novel, Rise of the Sidenah, is a North American Book Awards winner, and New Apple Book Awards Official Selection (Young Adult). She is the founder of Writing and Wellness, a motivational site for writers and other creatives. Find more at her website, or follow her on Twitter.




You know you’ve come to the culmination of your writing career when a client asks you to write about poop transplants.

This happened to me a couple weeks ago. As a health writer, I’m often asked to write about the latest advances in medical science. These things usually interest me, but sometimes it can be a little tough to get started.

Turns out that the area of poop transplants—officially called “fecal microbiota transplants (FMTs)”—is actually fascinating. It involves all this new stuff we’re figuring out about the good and bad bacteria in our systems, particularly in the digestive system, and how much it affects our health.

But it’s not exactly the topic that gets you running to the computer with your fingers eager for the keys. Thing is, when you make your living writing, it doesn’t matter if you feel like it or not. You have to produce, as that’s your bread and butter.

And some days, it’s just darned difficult.

Fiction is usually easier, but not always. Some days even when we’re working on stories that are precious to us, we just can’t seem to get excited about them. We have deadlines on the calendar, but when we think about sitting down to work, suddenly almost anything else—even washing dishes or cleaning the bathroom—seems preferable.

After 20 years of full-time writing for a living while writing fiction on the side, I think I’ve gotten pretty good at figuring out how to get it done even when writing’s the last thing I want to do.

Here are seven tips to help you over the hump. Try them out and you may find yourself producing more than you thought you could.

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1. Shut Everything Off


Fiction is usually easer, but not always. Some days even when we’re working on stories that are precious to us, we just can’t seem to get excited about them. We have deadlines on the calendar, but when we think about sitting down to work, suddenly almost anything else—even washing dishes or cleaning the bathroom—seems preferable.

After 20 years of full-time writing for a living while writing fiction on the side, I think I’ve gotten pretty good at figuring out how to get it done even when writing’s the last thing I want to do.

It’s so easy to be distracted these days. If you feel like you don’t really want to write, you may be tempted to pick up the phone and check Twitter or Facebook “for just a minute.”


Don’t fool yourself. That minute will quickly turn into five and ten and before you know it your writing time is blown. When it’s time to write, shut everything off. Just do it. Don’t ask yourself if you want to. Turn the switches and push the buttons.


Promise yourself the “reward” of checking it all once you’re writing is done. It takes discipline, but once you have all the distractions out of the way you’re more likely to be able to tune into your own imagination.

2. Get Some Motivation


I’m a health writer, and the founder of Writing and Wellness, so I’d rather you not tank up on sugar and saturated fat, but let’s face it: a little motivation can go a long way toward helping you sit down and write.


If you can go for some cut-up fruit, a handful of nuts, or a serving of yogurt, great. But I know most of us need something a little more indulgent when we’re facing the blank page.


Moderation is key. Whatever your vice is—sugar, wine, chips, soda, what have you—try to “health it up” either by making a healthier choice or going easy on the portion. I like chocolate chip muffins, but a regular one packs on the calories, so I choose one mini one. That plus a cup of coffee makes it a lot more pleasant to sit down with my laptop.


If you’re having trouble getting started, try tempting yourself with something good. Just be smart about it. If you’re a chip fan, look for the high-fiber, whole-grain variety. Cookie monster? Choose one or two instead of a half bag. Candy? Separate out a few pieces and put the rest of the bag away.


This is about getting started, so choose just enough to get you going.


3. Read Books from Authors You Admire


Even when I’m struggling with my work in progress, I look forward to my writing time because I start out by reading.


I have a stack of 8-10 books by my chair and I read out loud from one or more every day before writing. I started doing this after I attended a writing workshop in Florida. As part of the workshop, the organizers invited big authors to read every night.


That meant that every night, for six nights, we gathered in the auditorium to listen to the likes of Andre Dubus III, Ann Patchett, Dennis Lehane, Stuart O’Nan, Daniel Woodrell, and other amazing writers read from their award-winning books.


I went home with my ears buzzing. There’s something about hearing great stories read out loud that teaches you more than any class ever could. The great thing is that we can expose ourselves to these mentors every day by simply reading their work out loud.


I’m a music teacher as well as a writer, and I always listen to recordings of great artists with my students to help them hear how the pieces should sound. They always make great leaps forward after these exercises.


The same principal applies to writing. Reading other works out loud helps get you in the rhythm of great writing, so that when you turn to your own work, your prose will naturally come up a notch in quality.


4. Engage Your “Muscle Memory”


You’ve shut off all the distractions, gotten yourself something tasty, and taken a mental dance to the rhythm of great writing. Now it’s time to set yourself up to write.


This means sitting in your chair, setting up your laptop, opening the file you’ve been working on (or a blank page), and setting your fingers on the keys (or around the pen) so you’re ready to write.


These first four steps (or any modification of these that you set up) need take only 5-10 minutes, and can form a regular writing ritual for you. If you do this same set of steps every time—every day or every other day—you’ll establish what we call “muscle memory.”  


Muscle memory is something we develop through repetition. It’s what allows you to drive your car (almost) without thinking, to play a tune on the piano, to hit a ball with a bat, and to ride a bike. All these things required a lot of thinking at first, but the more you did them, the more automatic the movements became, until you did them naturally.


You know the saying “it’s like riding a bike.” Once you establish that muscle memory, you never lose it.


You can do the same thing with your writing routine. This is one of the most helpful things I’ve found to get you writing when you don’t feel like it. Do the same ritual often enough and you’ll set those grooves in your brain to automatic. (It usually takes only a couple weeks.)


At the designated time, your body and mind will gravitate toward writing because that’s what you’ve taught them to do. Once the habit is firmly established, you’ll likely feel “weird” if you don’t do it. So even when you don’t feel like it, it will be easier to get started.


5. Set a Timer


When we don’t feel like writing, we watch the clock. We think about what we’re going to do after we’re done.


The kids are coming home in half an hour. Then we’re going to do this and that. Maybe you should cut up some fruit as they’re going to be hungry, or make sure the wash is in the dryer, etc.


The mind will run away with you if you let it. Setting a timer helps you focus on the task at hand. If the kids are coming home in a half hour, turn the knob to 30 minutes and then forget it. Until that ringer goes off, the only thing you have to do is write.


This can be really liberating for you. Without having to worry about what you have to do next, your mind can feel free to play on the page.


6. Allow Yourself to Write Crap

Remember crap can be fixed or tossed. Write it in any case!
Remember crap can be fixed or tossed. Write it in any case!


Often when you don’t feel like writing, the first few paragraphs don’t come out very well. Knowing you’re not really in the zone and that this isn’t going to be a great American novel-writing day makes it even harder to get started.


Here’s where you’ve got to lower your standards and give yourself some slack. The trick is to allow yourself to write badly.


It doesn’t matter. You just need to get into the rhythm, so let it rip. Remember that what counts is getting words on the page. You can go back and fix them later, if you need to.


You may surprise yourself. The next day what you thought was crap may actually sound pretty good.


7. Use Other Inspirational Tools


If you’ve gotten to this point and you’re still not writing, there are a couple other things you can try.


What you need is some other inspirational tools. Music often does it for me, if it’s the right music. Find something that evokes the mood of the scene you want to write. It may help to set up a play list for your novel so that you have some tunes you can easily choose from when the need arises.


Images are another good option. Look at the photos you’ve gathered for your characters (you have gathered photos, right?), photos of your settings, or try finding your scene location on Google maps. Let your eyes take you into that other world where your story takes place.


Drawing works well for some writers. Sketch out the scene you’re thinking about and imagine what happens next. Draw a map for your fantasy world, or try depicting in ink your spaceship or new weapon.


Just be careful not to let your new hobby be a distraction. Give yourself 10-15 minutes (set a timer if you need to), and then return to your writing.


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There are other things that may help. You can write just one sentence, for example. It can be anything. Make it up. Let it be awful if it’s awful. You just have to get started.


Another thing that works sometimes: Pick up one of the books you’re reading and copy down a sentence or two out of it. Then think about how you can use it for the scene you want to write. Change it around to fit. Keep working with it until you’re off and running.


The key is getting over that hump—that wall that can sometimes exist between you and the world you want to create. Establishing a ritual is one of the most effective things I’ve found to help with that, but there are a lot of other things that can work, too.


Bottom line: If you want to write more and get more work out there, realize that it may feel uncomfortable sometimes. Every day isn’t going to be writing bliss. Sometimes it can feel like you have to grab yourself by the back of the neck and plop yourself in your chair.


The good news is that it’s always worth it. Whatever it takes to get started, you’ll almost always feel a sense of accomplishment once you do, even if you manage only a few lines.

That was more than was there before. And that’s the beauty of writing.